A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got
together to visit their old university lecturer.
Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in
work and life.
Offering his guests coffee, the lecturer went to the kitchen
and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of
cups: porcelain, plastic,glass, some plain-looking and some
expensive and exquisite, telling them to help themselves to
hot coffee.
When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the
lecturer said:
"If you noticed, all the nice-looking, expensive cups were
taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones.
While it is but normal for you to want only the best for
yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.
What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but
you consciously went for the better cups and are eyeing each
other's cups."
"Now, if Life is coffee, then the jobs, money and position
in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and
contain Life, but the quality of Life doesn't change."
"Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to
enjoy the coffee in it."
So please , don't let the cups drive you...enjoy the coffee.
Subject: Test for keen eyesight
This is a REAL neurological test. Seat comfortably and feel calm.
1- Find the C below. Do not use any cursor help.
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2- If y ou already found the C, now find the 6 below.
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3- Now find the N below. It's a little more difficult..
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This is NOT a joke.
If you were able to pass these 3 tests, you can cancel your annual visit to your neurologist.
Your brain is great and you're far from having Alzheimer's Disease. Congratulations!
30 Jun 2010
Source: The New Paper. SINGAPORE
HE was often home when his wife returned with a man, took him to her room and closed the door.
Suspecting that his wife of one year-plus was committing adultery, the man secretly installed a camera inside her bedroom.
It captured her having sex with her lover.
The husband, 33, applied to divorce his wife, 29, and submitted the video footage as evidence.
In granting the divorce earlier this month, the judge found that what the wife had done was “more than just a case of adultery”.
Said District Judge Angelina Hing: “(This) is a case of exceptional depravity on the part of the wife.”
The judge had no doubt the husband had suffered exceptional hardship because his wife did not try to conceal her adulterous acts.
“To see his wife bring home a man and have him come and go as he pleased, in the husband’s words, ‘like I was totally transparent’ and to actually view the images of his wife having sex with the man is, in my view, exceptional hardship,” the judge said.
The husband, who is now unemployed, was so devastated that he was observed to be “significantly depressed”, according to a report from the Institute of Mental Health dated Feb 9 this year.
The court heard that the couple got married on July 23, 2008. But there was little marital bliss and they often quarrelled over money.
The husband claimed his wife, who has a polytechnic diploma, refused to look for a job after 2007.
Instead, she ran an Internet business from home, selling old items through an auction and shopping website. It was not clear exactly how long they knew each other before they got married.
The husband said that in early September last year, she left their home without a word and later SMSed him to say she wanted a divorce.
The wife denied this, claiming that she merely said she wanted a separation.
Less than two weeks later, on Sept 14, she returned home, but slept in a separate bedroom in their three-room flat.
The court heard that after returning to the flat, the wife started to bring a man home regularly, even when the husband was around. She would take the man into her room and close the door.
As a result, the husband became depressed and could not concentrate on his work as a driver.
He did not go to work for four days in a row and was later dismissed by his employers.
After confiding in his sister, he decided to install a camera in his wife’s bedroom.
The video footage confirmed that his wife was having sex with the man in the room.
The wife did not deny this, but insisted through her lawyer that she was not trying to provoke her husband.
She claimed that every time she brought her lover home, she thought her husband would either be out or in his own room, and so would not notice what they were up to.
She said her husband was possessive.
She stopped working as a sales assistant in 2007 because he didn’t like her to have contact with many people.
According to her, she had left their flat after a quarrel over his insisting on having sex even when she was tired and ill.
She said she moved back in because she wanted to salvage the marriage and give her husband another chance. Through her lawyer, the wife indicated that she was willing to attempt to reconcile with her husband and has since left the third party.
Criticised
But Judge Hing slammed the woman over the way she had treated her husband.
She said: “Bringing a man to the matrimonial flat where her husband was residing is a blatant disregard for his feelings and the marriage. She did not try to conceal her adulterous acts in any way.”
The wife’s explanations cut no ice with Judge Hing, who accepted the husband’s assertion that his wife’s actions were done to provoke him.
She said: “It was a modest three-room HDB flat...Is it possible that he would not notice a man walking in and around the house and spending time with his wife in the next room behind closed doors?”
Judge Hing added that although the wife claimed she was prepared to reconcile with her husband, there was no evidence of any effort for this on her part.
The husband had said through his lawyer, Mr Tan Cheng Kiong, that he was devastated and had lost all hope or desire for reconciliation.
The husband added that he was mentally tortured by his wife’s wanton behaviour and was unable to concentrate on his daily activities.
He had to see a doctor for anti-depressants.
The wife’s lawyer submitted that there was no medical evidence to suggest the husband was suffering from any psychiatric condition.
To that, Judge Hing said: “The effect of (exceptional hardship) was apparent...If he was resilient enough not to lose his mind, that surely should not be used against him.”
Enjoy Yourself!!!!
First thing to do out of prison
Bad Bernie was in prison for seven years. The day he got out, his wife and son were there to pick him up. He came through the gates and got into the car.
The only thing he said was, "F.F."
His wife turned to him and answered, "E.F."
Out on the highway, he said, "F.F."
She responded simply, "E.F."
He repeated, "F.F."
She again replied, "E.F."
"Mom! Dad!" their son yelled. "What's going on?"
Bad Bernie answered, "Your mother wants to eat first.
This may be one of the most asked questions in the dating game.
Especially for women it sometimes can seem almost impossible to tell whether a guy is interested or not. You can spend so much time trying to figure out ‘is he or isn’t he’ that the whole evening is spoiled and you still have no idea what the real answer is.
Luckily, there is something that can give you a clue whether a man likes you or not. It’s called “body language flirting“.
Body language flirting actually reveals all the answers you will ever want to know.
All you have to do is look for the following six signs. They are very clear, subconscious indications of male attraction, which most men have no control over, so they are very accurate.
One on its own will be a hint in the right direction, but if you see three or more then you should definitely take note!
The first sign is something that seems to be very obvious, but it will give you a good idea of his attraction towards you:
1. Is he smiling at you?
If the answer is yes then he is clearly interested in you. If a man has no interest in you whatsoever he won’t smile or try and engage you in this way.
This sign of male body language flirting shows you that he is aware of you and wants to get to know you better. So if you like him, the best thing to do is – of course – make sure you smile back!
2. How much preening is he doing?
This is another classic sign of body language flirting. If he likes you he will want to make sure he looks his best and makes that clear to you. By smoothing his hair down and paying more attention to his appearance, he is unknowingly sending a clear signal to you.
3. Is he trying to assert his masculinity?
Men who do this by standing with their feet apart and striking a macho pose are trying to look better than every other man in the room. Even if you only have eyes for him, he will still strike this pose in order to appear as the best choice of the men who are available in the room.
It might sound strange but this is very similar to how things work in the animal kingdom too. If he is doing everything he can to stand out from the crowd you can be sure that he likes you.
4. Where do his feet point?
When a woman sees a man and wonders whether he is attracted to her, the last thing she will probably be looking at are his feet!
But in fact that is exactly where you should look, because they can tell you a lot about the feelings of the man they belong to. If they are pointing towards you, this is a good sign of body language flirting because they tell you he is interested. If they are pointing away from you then you should start looking elsewhere because he has no interest at all.
This is a little known fact.
5. Is he making good eye contact?
Most people know about eye contact, but it is very important to understand exactly how this works. If a man is not attracted to you then he will have no reason to look at you. This much makes sense.
If he is attracted to you however, he will make more eye contact because of that attraction. But he may also keep looking away if you catch him looking at you. Don’t take that as a sign he isn’t interested though; in fact it is a very good sign because he feels self conscious that you caught him peeking!
Body language flirting is easier to spot in eye contact than in some of the other signs at times. So watch out for it.
6. Has he accidentally or briefly made actual bodily contact with you?
This is a big one.
Have you ever wondered why a man is seemingly accidentally touching you?
A gentle touch on the arm, brushing past you on his way across the room… there are many ways that a man will use body language flirting by making actual contact with you. It’s called kinesthetics (kino), and it’s an obvious sign of attraction.
Conclusion:
There are body language flirting signs a man unconsciously gives that you can look for. It will give you a pretty good picture IF a man is in to you or not.
THE CROWD GATHERS around as tears flow down her cheeks. Her last day will be her worst. The assorted gang are allowed stones of a particular size: Not bigger than, nor smaller than one-third of, a human digit. Hence, the stones should be around one-half the size of an adult finger. The logic is to inflict the maximal pain. The objective is to stone the adulterous woman to death. 
The woman is buried up to her neck as her kids watch the whole scene. The Iranian state forces the close relatives of the woman to attend the public execution. A truck pulls up with the correctly proportioned stones. The verdict is read and then the official of the regime throws the first stone.
The chanting and the barrage start. The stones smash into her delicate face. Soon, the red liquid gushes out of her forehead. The intensity of the direct hits gouges out her right eye. Her nose gets completely broken. Her teeth are torn apart. She inhales a mixture of noxious air and blood. Her face is forever lost.
She streams in and out of consciousness. Shards of bone are sent in all directions as the stones brutally chisel the region where once her face was. The last thing she hears as the crowd extinguishes her frail soul is, "Allah Akbar!"
Such is the fate of women who are found guilty of adultery in Iran. In the modern world, no other state-sanctioned punishment exceeds this heinous display of public savagery.
