In a Chinese modern dance competition on TV one very unique couple won one of the top prizes. The lady, in her 30's, was a dancer who had trained since she was a little girl. Later in life, she lost her entire left arm in an accident and fell into a state of depression for a few years.
Someone then asked her to coach a Children's dancing group. From that point on, she realized that she could not forget dancing. She still loved to dance and wanted to dance again. So, she started to do some of her old routines, but, having lost her arm, she had also lost her balance.
It took a while before she could even make simple turns and spins without falling. Then she heard of a man in his 20s who had lost a leg in an accident. He had also fallen into the usual denial, depression and anger type of emotional roller coaster. But, she was determined to
find him and persuade him to dance with her.. He had never danced, and to dance with one leg....are you joking with me? "No way!"
But, she didn't give up, and he reluctantly agreed thinking, "I have nothing else to do anyway." She started to teach him dancing. The two broke up a few times because he had no concept of using muscle, how to control his body, and knew none of the basic things about dancing.
When she became frustrated and lost patience with him, he would walk out.Eventually, they came back together and started training seriously.
They hired a choreographer to design routines for them. She would fly high (held by him) with both arms (a sleeve for an arm) flying in the air.He could bend horizontally supported by one leg with her leaning on him,etc.
In the competition, as you will see, they dance beautifully and they legitimately won the competition."
When I watched this You will not even realize that she was missing an arm because You were focusing on the guy with only one leg. Really quite amazing!
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Japanese women often teach their children to bravely fight the forces of evil, and even if they lose, it is still infinitely glorious, the highest honor.
Chinese women often teach their children that when they encounter the forces of evil they must be good at hiding/running away/avoiding. They say that God will punish them [the forces of evil].
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Japanese women believe Japan is the world’s greatest country.
Chinese women usually believe that the moon may be rounder abroad ["the grass is greener"].
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Japanese women usually believe marrying foreigners is a kind of disgrace.
Chinese women usually feel that marrying foreigners is a kind of infinite glory.
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Japanese women are normally lady-like, but dirty in bed.
Many Chinese women are lady-like in bed, but dirty out of bed.
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Most Japanese women abide by the rules of a woman, supporting her husband, raising her children, dutifully.
China is the world’s number one country for one-night stands and extramarital affairs.
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Japanese women are almost all very filial, seeing their mother-in-law as their own mother.
Most Chinese women are all too eager for their mother-in-law to quickly die.
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Japanese wives treat their husbands with encouragement and concern. Returning home late at night exhausted at the end of a day, the wife will say “you’ve had a tough day.”
Chinese wives treat their husbands with complaints and scolding. Returning home late at night exhausted at the end of a day, the wife will roar “where the hell did you go this time?”
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Most young Japanese girls will find a man who is around their age to marry, and make a life with him together.
Young Chinese girls always find a wealthy “old” man, and don’t mind even being his Nth mistress/wife.
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Japanese mothers teach their daughters to look after their husbands, and diligently be filial to her parents-in-law.
Chinese mothers teach their daughters that they must keep firm control of all the man’s assets.
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Japanese women can tolerate men without money [poor men], but definitely cannot tolerate cowardly and weak men.
Chinese women can tolerate cowardly and weak men, but definitely cannot tolerate men without money.
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Japanese women see manly men as the most charming men.
Chinese women see manly men as male chauvinists.
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Most Japanese women are very lenient towards men’s infidelity.
Most Chinese women are very lenient towards their own infidelity.
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Japanese women almost never say bad things about Japanese men in public or in the media.
Chinese women always loudly curse and mock Chinese men on various media.
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The first words of Japanese women on their wedding night is: “If I do not look after/service you well tonight, please be forgiving.”
The first words of Chinese women on their wedding night is: “Hurry and see how much money was received today
REST IN PEACE,MY FRIEND.
A certain Mr Ng has been friends with me about 10 over years. We used to meet during our works in the construction industry until he quit,says about 6 years ago due to downturn in construction. Still in the pink of health ,we would oftenly phone each other and gather for a lunch or coffee.
Financially strong,he took up homekeeping as other family members maintaining their
occupation.As said,we still communicate with each other until about 3 June 2010.All my call to his mobile has no responce,thought he might have gone overseas with his family as it was a school holiday period.
Even though we are close friends,I admit I do not know any of his family members personally.My friend also do not know my family either. Its only through our casual chatting,that theres a understanding about our family.
10 June 2010, I receive a sms from his mobile phone, the message stuns me a moment. It reads "The owner of this number has passed away, please terminate this service "
Shocked,but stable, I reply, "My Condolences, Wheres the funeral, Thanks". I was expecting a reply as this news might have come from his family members informing of his death.
One hour, One day, Ten days, no reply...Haizzzzzzzz. My friend,I sincerly hope to attend your funeral wake and offer you my RESPECT,regretably, I also do not know which area you had live in before..Sob,sob, Please accept my ignorance in this confession of myself.
THREE BOWS TO YOU , MR NG . O MI TO FU....